How to Stay Close to Your Long-Distance Bestie

There are so many ways to get in touch with friends, but it’s harder than ever to stay in touch with them. As a mom, it can feel impossible to connect meaningfully when your social life is restricted to a 60-minute window after the kids go to bed. But these are a few ways to make it happen.

Swap Photos

Think beyond Christmas cards and send photos a few times a year. Using a pharmacy or local retailer is more personal than a text message. If the service you prefer doesn't offer an option to include a note, upload a photo of a short message to pair with the selects.

Start a Long-Distance Book Club

Read the same devotional or book and choose a time to connect. It can be as simple as passing along your favorite quotes, sending a quick audio note, or planning a virtual meet-up. Apps like

or

have features that make it easy to select books and organize meet-ups.

Think Beyond Texts

Use an app like

to send quick video messages back and forth throughout the year. The casual format lends itself to bite-sized updates. It also takes the pressure out of sending an immediate response. If video isn't your thing, the app,

, also allows users to record audio messages and turn them into podcasts.

Send a Themed Gift Package

Does your friend go crazy for Christmas? Are they a huge Real Housewives fan? Collect a few quirky items to create a seasonal and/or themed mailer. Don't know what to look for? I love these tips from

.

Plan Your Next IRL Meet-Up

Don’t let years go by before you’re able to reunite. Set a date and plan your next meet-up. Feeling adventurous? The company

can plan a surprise trip for you and your bestie. All you have to do is fill out a survey that details the time, your interests, and budget.