Date Ideas for When You're Short on Time and Can't Leave the House

For most couples, time is both valuable and scarce, but allowing a relationship to thrive means we have to connect in ways that help us discover new things about one another. These 10-minute date ideas are perfect if you don’t have tons of time or can’t leave the house.

Date Ideas for When You're Short on Time and Can't Leave the House
Date Night In

Time is valuable and scarce, but allowing a relationship to thrive requires couples to connect in ways that reveal new things about one another. These 10-minute date ideas are perfect if you are short on time or can’t leave the house. Of course, they are no replacement for longer, more extensive one-on-one experiences, but can still let you experience spontaneous day-to-day intimacy.

  1. Browse photos from your first couples trip and brainstorm locations for your next romantic getaway.

  2. Shower together and share your roses and thorns from the day.

  3. Learn how to give a great head massage and practice on one another.

  4. Bring home a nostalgic childhood snack and share it.

  5. Build your dream house using only blocks or Legos.

  6. Play a game of UNO and share a childhood memory.

  7. Share a passage from a book you love and share how it inspires you.

  8. Use your iPhone timer and take couples portraits—they will be fun to remember in a few years.

  9. Sketch your spouse and see what you look like from their perspective. Try not to make it look like this.

  10. Hold one another and dance to your favorite song.